Oct. 03, 2004
60 min.
ABC TV Network

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On a sunny day in the loveliest of suburbs, in a town called Fairview, housewife Mary Alice Young killed herself. Now she takes us into the lives of her family and neighbors. Her girlfriends are Susan, a known klutz who recently remarried the love of her life, Lynette who struggles with her family and career, Bree the owner of a catering business and the ex-model turned housewife Gabrielle...

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Rex Van De Kamp

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Steven Bradford Culp (born December 3, 1955) is an American film and television actor. He is known for ...

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Dr. Rex Van de Kamp is the late husband of Bree. He was a well respected doctor, a devoted father, and a excellent provider.

Rex asked Bree for a divorce while at a steakhouse they were eating at on one of the rare occurrences that the Van De Kamps did not eat Bree's cooking at home. He said that he could no longer "live in this detergent commercial," but the cause of their blase marriage was later revealed to be rooted in Rex's failing to ask his wife to dominate him. In spite of Bree's promises to satisfy her husband's secret sexual urges if he shared them with her, Rex embarked on an affair with local homemaker/prostitute Maisy Gibbons. Rex suffered a near-fatal heart attack whilst being dominated by Maisy. Whilst Rex was in hospital Bree threatened to eviscerate him, after discovering Rex's affair with Maisy by seeing that she had signed him in at the hospital. As a result of Rex having another heart attack, the couple came to realize that they should be nice to one another in the time they had left. However, the Van De Kamp's pharmacist, George Williams, fell obsessively in love with Bree and became jealous of their marriage, strengthened by Rex's rudeness toward George. George Williams' jealousy culminated in him tampering with Rex's prescriptions. As a result of Rex not receiving the proper medication to prevent further heart complications, he suffered another heart attack. Ultimately, the tampered medications resulted in Rex's death. He died thinking Bree had poisoned him after all that he had put her through, especially in the past year. In Rex's final moments, he wrote a letter to her saying that he understood why she had killed him and that he forgave her.

Bree was informed of Rex's passing. Rex's mother, Phyllis Van De Kamp, arrived for his funeral. Her constant disapproval of Bree for how she treated Rex led to tensions in the preparations for his funeral. During Rex's funeral, Bree discovered that Phyllis had gone over her head and put Rex's school tie on him, which Bree detested. In front of the packed church's congregation, she removed Rex's school tie and replaced it with the one she demanded from Tom Scavo. Rex was buried in that tie, much to Bree's approval. Following his funeral, Rex was buried. However, he was dug up during the police's investigation into his death after it was deemed suspicious. Shortly before a second memorial service Bree planned with Lynette, Susan, and Gabrielle, Bree was shown the note Rex wrote on his deathbed. Bree refused to be buried next to someone for eternity who thought she killed them. She moved his grave away from their plot so he was far from them, she also throws her wedding ring in the grave.

Returns to Desperate Housewives

Since his death, Rex has appeared in a coffin in the first episode of season 2 and in flashbacks in the season 2 finale Remember. The flashbacks included the Van De Kamps first moving to Wisteria Lane and meeting Mary Alice Young. When Bree tried to pressure Mary Alice into punishing Andrew for stealing one of the Youngs' garden ornaments, Rex assured Mary Alice, "We're not weird, we just seem like it." In another flashback, he was at the local drug store buying hair dye with Bree to get rid of purple Danielle had put in her hair. This showed Rex and Bree's on-going debate on how to discipline their children, in which Rex was much more lax than his wife.

Rex Van De Kamp took the role of narrator, much like that of Mary Alice Young, for season 3, episode 16 (the 62nd episode of the entire series) My Husband, the Pig, which focused primarily on the men of Desperate Housewives: Carlos Solis, Tom Scavo, Mike Delfino, Orson Hodge, and Ian Hainsworth. In his commentary on Orson "replacing" him as head of his family, Rex appeared hesitant but said that he had the Van De Kamp smile, meaning that no matter how bad a situation was, he could give a reassuring smile that made it appear that everything was perfect. It should be noted that despite it being unclear where Rex Van De Kamp is laid to rest, a tombstone featuring his name appeared at the beginning of the episode.

Rex also appeared in a season 5 flashback when Bree was planning to write a cookbook when he remarked she should get a job when the stove breaks down. Eventually he changes his mind when she takes it to heart telling her he'll buy her a stove.

Episode Screenshots

01x20 - Fear No More
Season 1, Episode 20
03x14 - I Remember That
Season 3, Episode 14
02x22 - No One Is Alone
Season 2, Episode 22
06x16 - The Chase
Season 6, Episode 16
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Rex Van De Kamp Quotes

01x19 - Live Alone and Like It (a.k.a. An Unexpected Song) Season 1 / Episode 19: - Live Alone and Like It (a.k.a. An Unexpected Song)

Bree: Andrew, you remember Reverend Sikes, don't you?
Andrew Van De Kamp: Oh, come on.
Bree: Um, Reverend, why don't you, um, have seat, and I will get some refreshments?

Reverend Sikes: Ah. So, Andrew, it's been a long time.
Andrew Van De Kamp: Yes. Yes, it has.
Bree: Would you like some water? I have flat or bubbly.
Reverend Sikes: Oh, bubbly, please. So, your mother tells me you've started having some sexual desires for other boys.

Andrew Van De Kamp: I don't suppose I could get some of that.
Rex Van De Kamp: I'm gonna need every drop.
01x19 - Live Alone and Like It (a.k.a. An Unexpected Song) Season 1 / Episode 19: - Live Alone and Like It (a.k.a. An Unexpected Song)

Bree Van De Kamp: Reverend, I don't mean to criticize, but it sounds like you're giving up.
Reverend Sikes: Well, we can't force him on the path of righteousness. He himself has got to want to make the journey.
Bree Van De Kamp: Well, then, what do we do, just stand by while he starts dating boys?

Bree Van De Kamp: And by the way, the correct word is not "gay." It's "sodomy."
Rex Van De Kamp: We're in the middle of dinner.
Bree Van De Kamp: So?
Rex Van De Kamp: So, can you at least wait until desert before calling our son a sodomite?
Bree Van De Kamp: How you can sit there and be so casual is beyond me.
Rex Van De Kamp: For starters, I knew this dinner was a bad idea the moment you suggested it.
Bree Van De Kamp: Well, at least I'm trying to be pro-active!
Reverend Sikes: Please, there's no need to get upset.
Bree Van De Kamp: I am upset because there is a problem here and no-one seems to notice it but me.
Rex Van De Kamp: As far as I'm concerned, if Andrew is happy with who he is, then it is our job to support him!

Bree Van De Kamp: [to Andrew] Your father is into S&M.
Rex Van De Kamp: Bree!
Bree Van De Kamp: He makes me beat him with a riding crop and I let him. It's no wonder you're perverted. Look who your parents are.

Rex Van De Kamp: Excuse me.

Andrew Van De Kamp: [to Reverend Sikes] What a fun night. You know, we should really do this again sometime.
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